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Well, at least she is visiting her sick friend. I'm not gonna criticize her for doing that, I just hope that she respects his wishes...
Nice that ol' Jackles could show up to see the custodian of her memories, even if her smoke and mirrors magic show at MIT took pride of place. Is she really twittering when visiting this poor guy at the hospital? No wonder his family hates her.
Anon, I really don't think D's "wishes" would include being blogged about from the hospital bed. It's SICK.
Why on earth would you take photos at a hospital? I can't even understand how she can't comprehend that this is an invasion of privacy. She's turning everyone's pain and hardship into a fucking photo op. Just because something exists doesn't mean it needs to be "lifecasted."
anon 2:07, I am not even going to go into how much your rationalization is completely fucked up.
The D post right next to a post about excitement over a damn Bestsey Johnson sample sale just proves how Julia Baugher's mentality and perspective is completely whacked out. Those two posts next to each other perfectly sum up her complete moral bankruptcy in the name of "lifecasting." DISGUSTING.
Plus she can't pull off solemn well anymore. I mean, you can't go from looking like a roller skating-barbie doll in shiny tights for months and months on end, and then put on a a staring-off-into-the-middle-distance seriousness and have me beleive it.yes everyone's life is a mix of light and heavy. But she has painstakingly cultivated this vapid, fake perosna for so long.. she just cant switch gears anymore. Like watching Adam Sandler cry in a movie. Or Paris Hilton wandering an African oprhanage. Not a good fit.
betsy johnson sale and blood
All I am saying is that Dan invited her there, this is Dan's thing, and I'm not going to criticize his decision. You guys can fire away if you want.
Julia now interrupts her regularly scheduled program of "Saint Julia" to bring you yet another reminder how she does not use meds - not EVER! Only sick people like [redacted] have to be on icky icky MEDS. "@adamwohl - No, no meds, no way - but I didn't sleep the night before (nerves for my MIT talk), so it only averages out to 6 hrs/night (ha)about 3 hours ago from web in reply to adamwohl""Twelve glorious hours of sleep. It's a beautiful day in Boston, and I'm heading over to Mass General to see Dan now ...about 3 hours ago from web"
This is a new low. I hope she at least obtained his permission. Really macabre and revolting of her, to be thinking of broadcasting his illness for pageviews while he's captive in a bed having his blood filtered. He should get the restraining order, not Rosie.
What's next? Liveblogging from the funeral? Shameless.
Anon 2:07/2:18 (can you choose a handle?) Dan may have invited her there, but do you honestly think he is OK with her blogging from his hospital bed (to make herself look better?) It's a gross invasion of privacy, something that Julia "Put it out there" Baugher cannot even begin to comprehend.
When she's done doing a Cancer Dan head-to-toe, she should ask him some questions about himself. Here's a few suggestions:(JULIA): Cancer Dan, you've known me for along time. What's YOUR favorite memory of me?Um, Cancer Dan, let me ask, as I've always wanted to know: can you totally not believe what I've been able to accomplish as a businesswoman? Or did you know it all along? Or, Cancer Dan, is it both?Cancer Dan, do you think I'd look good in cancer?
Also, and it's 2:21 again... so her nerves kept her up worrying about the MIT pizza-with-inappropriately-costumed-non-intellectual-speaker gig, but she slept like a baby before her friend's hospital stay? Disgusting.
224exactly!Freaking out to go to an after-school club. Cool as a cucumber about CD. Phucked up!
BB,I have no insight into Dan's mind. I do know that, if I were in the hospital, a visit from JA would probably put a smile on my face - kind of like getting a visit from a wacky clown. Like I said, this is Dan's game and I'm not going to second guess it. That's all I am going to say on this matter.
In all reality, he is probably fine with her posting a pic on her blog. He knows her very well and knows her blog! However, WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND GOES AHEAD AND WHIPS OUT THE IPHONE TO ACTUALLY POST IT TO HER BLOG!? That's what makes me sick. How can she even entertain the thought of 'documenting' this? Does she ever shut off? YES, JULIA. I HATE YOU.Camilla and Charles
I think he's as disgusting as her
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Is it sad that I'm surprised she isn't there in a pink tutu doing her SNAP! pose next to his bed, while an orderly shoots away? Because I was sort of expecting that.
Look, on any other blog, this might not bother me. On someone who typically displays class, honesty, thoughfulness - it would probably be something thought-provoking to post. There's no use hiding cancer, it's a reality we all need to be aware of, even if it makes us uncomfortable. But it's the fact that it's coming from HER. Someone who regularly posts pictures of herself posing, whose content is all fluff and posturing and cleanses and general bullshit. That's what gets me about it. She's only doing it for attention. I really don't believe she even gives a shit that her friend has cancer. I don't think deep down she really, truly understands how to empathize with another human being. She sucks.
TJ,Yes, the picture is jarring, but that's life. I would have expected her not to put up such a picture since her "lifecast" is usually a total fantasy. You do make a good point about the "fly by" visit though.
you know sometimes they tell visitors to turn off cell phones in hospitals Julia??
Guys, she didn't post a picture of him! Just the machine helping him fight the disease! She is SO respectful! She thinks ahead! She is nice.
anon 226 - What does "this is [redacteds] game and I'm not going to second guess it" even mean? That like saying if a woman is OK with her husband abusing her, then it's OK. Just because he welcomed her visit doesn't mean she gets the all clear to pull out her phone and take pictures. THAT is what is sicko and speaks volumes to just how little common sense or empathy Saint Julia Allison possesses.
Total fly by visit. 3 days in the same city with her beloved D, and only a brief visit to the hospital on her way to the bus. What a nutball!
It really says a lot about someone when they'll spend more time Photoshopping their waddle out of photos and staging photo ops of themselves behind a podium talking to NO ONE (uh dumbass, maybe next time instead of perfecting your Mr Roboto/Ralph Macchio 'serious lecturer'moves, you may want to ensure that ALL THE POWER CORDS ARE PLUGGED in or at least tucked away)instead of rushing over to see their "dear friend" who just happens to be dying of cancer. Or is his illness too inconvenient for her?What a shallow, inconsiderate, puffy-arse psycho. I'm going to email Rosie and beg her to beat the living shit out of this bitch should she have the balls to return to her apartment. Sorry - rant over. Please carry on.
TJ, She cares; she really does! She made time for him and his blood-filtering machine activities! She is so nice, guys. Julia, you keep on living your life differently and you just wait and see what an impact you will have! I feel it -- I'm changing!
Don't forget she had dinner with him and his girlfriend before her Harvahd patties Sat night...She saw him twice, y'all. Get yur facts strate!
Lindsey,Taking pictures of a machine is different than punching your spouse in the face. Dan's not helpless, he's just ill.
According to Twitter, she went to bed early because she had to wake up early to visit the hospital. Then after 12 glorious hours of sleep she headed over sometime around noon.Gross.
You are right anon 2:44 #1 - Julia had dinner with D and his girlfriend on Saturday night before her creepy college crawl. http://julia.nonsociety.com/post/100380144-0-0Hmmm... no photos from that event. Wonder why? Maybe because D DOESN'T WANT TO BE BLOGGED ABOUT??? And you're right anon 244 #2 - D isn't "helpless", he's just in bed with tubes stuck in him. Snap away! No, it's not the same as punching someone in the face, but it's just as abusive and disrespectful. If you can't see that, you are as morally bankrupt as Julia Baugher.
2:44, you're missing the point. she shouldn't be using his illness for content for her blog. plain and simple. great, she's visiting him. maybe she should spend more time being with him instead of blogging that she's with him. "hey look everyone! i'm super compassionate and i'm visiting my sick friend in the hospital! look at me! here i am! he's really sick, but i care about him enough to be at the hospital!" but in julia's mind, if she didn't blog about it, it didn't happen. it's almost more important that she blog about visiting him than actually visiting him. that's the issue.
The power cords aren't plugged in?! HAHAHAHA!!Th blood filtering picture looks surreal on her site, posted beside the sample sale invite. The whack layout - all posts laid out in a horizontal line - make it more jarring than the traditional one post on top of the previous layout.Right now it (the pic) has got a hot pink circular on one side of it and a pony-tailed, star-earringed, pink tutu clad, vapid moron on the other. Bizarre.
Lindsey,It is more "abusive and disrespectful" to assume that someone with "tubes stuck in him" cannot make a decision about Julia Allison, but Lindsey, an anonymous commenter, can make that decision and judgement for him.
Frankly I'm surprised she didn't pose next to the machine in a slutty nurse costume.Her text reads like a 6th grade essay.She's an abomination.
People, this is Julia Allison we're talking about. The world's most indiscreet, insufferable and invasive person. Frankly, I am not surprised she posed with him and her collection of stylish hats and "reader" emails she printed out and made into a book for him - remember that post? I tried to find it on her blog but I guess she deleted it. Revising history and all that.
Anon2:58: Even if he is fine and dandy about her posting the picture (I'm sure he is, or else she probably would not have done it), it's still in poor taste coming from a woman who blogs about dresses for a living.
regardless of what julia does for a living, it's in poor taste because someone who really cares about their friend who is DYING doesn't think, "oooh! i should blog about this!" when they're visiting them in the hospital.
Oh god. she's tweeting again. this time Julia The Martyr has said she is going to skip the documentary showing she is in (eyeroll) to stay with Dan in the hospital.
..the documentary where she is seen as one of the batshit crazy twenty-somethings who recklessly use plastic surgery and weapons-grade chemical injections for their face...
This Saint Julia tweet is too rich: "No one should ever, ever be alone in a hospital. 11 minutes ago from txt" What she meant to say, in more than 140 characters -- "No one should ever, ever be alone in a hospital. They should be with a GOOD, SO SO NICE AND SAINTLY FRIEND who cares enough to blog, tweet and photograph their terrible ordeal." What a horrible person.
"Still at hospital w Dan. I decided to skip premiere of the documentary I'm in tonight @ lincoln center to spend more time w him.13 minutes ago from txt" I CAN'T BE THERE (BECAUSE I AM A SAINT) BUT GO SEE THE DOCUMENTARY WITH MEEEEEE TONIGHT AT LINCOLN CENTER!!! I AM PRESTIGIOUS!!! I AM IMPORTANT!!! I AM IN A DOCUMENTARY AT LINCOLN CENTER!!!!
She's skipping a movie premiere! Where the movie is about HER! To stay with her sick friend! That's so nice. She's nice.
"I'll skip attending that event where there's a good chance I'll be publicly exposed as a vain, frivolous, shameless twat and where I couldn't really make any connections, anyhow, because everyone I tried to network with would be snickering at me on the inside. Because, you know, that's what true friendship is about - sacrifice."
Don't forget one who manages to go to bed early in order to wake up early to visit him... then strolls in midday to snap those photos. I don't think opting to stay in the hospital with him is even genuine. Nobody is attending that premiere with her, I do not doubt at all that the portrayal of her will be anything short of incredibly embarrassing and, wait for it... she's got nothing to wear, guys!
No, guys, Julia Fake Liar Allison Baugher went out for dinner with her brother and his GF, not D. D. is her friend. He knows her, tolerates her, might even find her fun to be around. Who knows? None of this is not about him though. It's about JABa. It's always about JABa. "Oh I'm sooooo exhausted from making a spectacle of myself at MITSloan bunnies!!!! Did I mention they thought I was a pre-frosh yo! But now I have to get up early tommorow to visit my poor sick friend." Oh fuck off Julia. Really. Just shut up. I thought you said you were going to put the damn twitter down for a few days? I don't know D at all of course but quietly send him and his family best wishes and strong beams of love for strength and recovery.
* She had dinner with BRITT and his GF NOT DAN. Dan is in the hospital. Get your facts strait.
LOL, beat me to it by 3 mins, 3:30!
She'll take her break from blogging when her clothes stop fitting completely. Since she won't break down and buy a size up like a normal person, she'll announce she is SO EXHAUSTED and get her flounce on. Then after a 3 week blueprint-only binge (and... k, won't go there), she'll be back. Given that she TOTEZ LOOKS PRE-FROSH, her Georgetown reunion at the end of May should be a smash, no? Yikes. Less than a month!
Guys, can't you see how scheming and manipulative this wax bloated cow is?it is obvious that she planned the hospital visit right before the showing of the plastic surgery documentary just so she could look saintly by forgoing attendance just so she could stay and heal her poor, poor keeper of memories. That way she avoids attending a showing of a movie where everyone in attendance is going to laugh at her, but gives the appearance of being Mother Theresa in a Tutu.Scheming cow
terrible drafting of my last post, but am in a rush. sorry
Anon 3:39 -- if Julia Baugher stopped blogging when her clothes stopped fitting, she'd have stopped a loooong time ago. And she's already made excuses for her weight gain with the Meghan McCain / Monica Seles business. She's HAPPY with her curves. SO SO HAPPY! I am sure her stuffed sausage in a tutu look has noooothing at all to do with the fact that her free supply of BingePrint Juice and Ilus dress rentals have totally dried up. Nooooo. Not at all.
She promised us she was going to take a break from blogging for a few days.bitch
The thing is, she isn't fat and I'm the first one to say so. Even with the weight gain. She just needs to dress her age and size already. This shit was cute about 5 years and 15 lbs ago, but it needs to stop now.
Johnny, Julia Baugher said she was PLANNING to take a trip "offline" not that the Boston trip was going to be offline. Remember her tweets asking for recommendations for a warm and tropical place, where she could take a "real vacation" and get away from the Internet for a few days because IT EXHAUSTS HER SO? Poor Saint Julia... being such a reprehensible person must be really tiring. She SO deserves a beach vacation, don't you think, bunnies? "I'm planning a no-camera-no-blog-no-Twitter-no-Internet trip. Sweet, sweet peace & quiet. :)2:52 PM Apr 24th from txt" "Planning actual vacation: where should I go?? Must be warm, lovely, not more than 5 hours plane ride from NYC. Bias towards islands. Help!!10:47 PM Apr 26th from web"
To anon who noted how calculated the skipping of the doc screening is, quite true. I'll never believe this blatant narcissist who just took photos of the hospital setup after showing up in the afternoon when she's been in town for days would skip a flattering doc. She has zero image control with the project, so she'll brag about it to make herself look better but not a chance she'll sit through that and face the crowd after! Nobody should have to be alone in the hosp when she's running away from an expose about her. Only when the prom date that ended up taking her when dan dumped her invites her to speak to a little club at MIT.
She should go to FL.. great alligator/croc photo ops! They're totally herbivores so it's safe Julia... Promise.
also, pretty hard to get from boston to Lincoln Center for an 8 pm movie after, like, 2 or 3 p.m. I mean, you could high tail it to Logan and hire a town car to bring you to your place to change.But JA took the bus up to Beantown. Methinks the avaialble cash is running low...
Pretty convenient that she's skipping the premiere of a movie that most likely paints her in a bad light because of D.'s cancer, EXACTLY like she skipped covering part of fashion week when she learned of his relapse. It couldn't be that she was just lazy, or tired from keeping a hooker's schedule, or fearful that people would actually ask her questions about face injections that she denys ever getting.
4:25, She prob. didn't fly because it wasn't comped by MIT. She's only frugal when it's on her dime! And she'll every last bus token and cupcake off as business expenses, anyhow. Funny, she probably had CD, Britt, Dan, co-ed groupies pick up the tabs for everything this weekend. Meanwhile, she's planning a jaunt to the carribean. So I think she only trots out the "I'm so impoverished!!" excuse when it's convenient. Girlfriend has plenty of dough. Maybe not by Park Avenue Princess standards, but she's never been down to $20 in the checking account before payday.
Also I heard there are free manta rays in Florida, and that they like to get their pictures taken with microcelebrities.
But it's a documentary SHE's in AND it's being screened at LINCOLN CENTER bunnies!! (Oh. oops. Did she forget to mention Mary is in it too?)She was awfully quiet about "We Live in Public". Was it an unflattering 2 second blip? Haven't seen it.
Off topic, but I just ventured over to More than Mary & her content is sliding down the craper, too. Well, it lasted, what? A week?Carry on!
her exploitations of cancer dan are so disgusting. anyone who actually cared and was truly upset at the situation and serious reality their friend was facing would NOT being posting photos of blood machines or anything! but i guess shes still hung up that dan dumped her two weeks before prom (TWELVE YEARS AGO, isnt that correct????) OMG LOL@sillyDANwithCANCER!!!
I think I saw on NS that she had ice cream in Boston with Dan "and his girl." (Can't find it now.) Hmmm...I wonder what Dan's "girl" thinks of Julia. Probably that she's really, really nice.
This is where she said she had dinner with Dan and his girl (not Britt and his girl, although I think she had a meal with them, too) ---- >http://julia.nonsociety.com/post/100380144-0-0That event was not photographed and blogged about - probably because Dan and his girl don't want to be blogged!
I wonder what Dan's girlfriend thinks of JABAs whole "nobody should be in the hospital alone" stuff. Bet she's thrilled.
Dan's current girlfriend probably feels the exact same way about Julia Baugher as Alex's current girlfriend does. Namely, that she is a creepy and pathetic leech.
Facts:April 26th she posted:"After the MIT concert, I cab’d it over to Harvard Square for a late dinner (and ice cream!) with Dan & his girl, then met up with a few readers & Harvard undergrads for an evening of hilarity, posing as a Prefrosh at one of the the massive, red-cup-laden Final Club parties.Quite the memorable experience. ;)"Cause the whole second guessing how many times she saw dan is really stupid.I think she probably amuses him. He has cancer. This is a bad thread. Sorry, but I think it is really in poor taste. I know she is bat-shit crazy, and I could even withstand the fat shit [I agree with party pants though, not fat, just wearing everything too tight and completely age inapropriate] but just the number of people here refering to him as "Cancer Dan" is problematic. Maybe I'm just old school but I think this should be left alone...there's soooo much else to call her on.
Anon 531, this post is in poor taste because Julia's behavior towards D is in poor taste. RBNS just reblogs what Julia blogs. If she blogs offensive things in poor taste, they get reblogged here. I agree - D does not deserve to be skewered by proxy, but he doesn't deserve to be blogged in the hospital either, but that doesn't stop Julia Baugher from taking tasteless hospital pictures.
Know what's worse? That is a Donate Life bag she "gave" him as a gift. Not sure where she got it but it is the logo for organ-donation procurement agencies. WTF JULIA
At least she could have gave him her Slanket!
Is "slanket" a portmanteau word for "slut blanket"?
Yeah im not a fan of calling him Cancer Dan either. it dehumanizes him. at the same time, i feel like secretly, the way julia blogs about him and his condition she would label him Cancer Dan if she could.
The post of Julia pictured with her last-minute prom date got overrun with discussion about Lena Chen. So can anybody tell me the story of how she got dumped by Dan two weeks before the big event? Good grief, that must have been a horribly traumatic experience for somebody like Jankles. It could explain a lot of her mental issues, if Cinderella ended up going to the ball with one of the pumpkin coach attendants instead of Prince Charming.Must.know.more.details. Anybody?
Oddly enough 9:29PM none of the posts on her blog with the word "prom" mention what happened. But clearly this high school drama has shaped. Julia's. Life.
Partypants- just an FYI, Dan is a real person with real friends. We don't know if he'll get better, but his treatment is not hopeless (and reading someone making that statement so thoughtlessly is like getting punched in the face) and your belief that Julia should not enjoy life since Dan is sick is totally F*cked up. Say what you will about the rest of it, but Julia does care about Dan and Dan cares about her. He would never want her to stay home lamenting his illness.
You know what, you're right. That was just out of line, especially considering my own experience. Apparently I've spent too long parsing the beast.I apologize to Dan and anyone who read that comment. It was inexcusable.
Whatever you think of Julia, Dan doesn't deserve this.